Ewa Szabatin honestly about the fact that she does not want to have children: “It’s WISI for me, is anyone asking or not”
Facebook is full of accounts where women anonymously write that they regret motherhood. Even here, such comments sometimes appear. The worst thing is the pressure and the belief that only one way of life is “normal”, ie if you have a boyfriend, you get married and, of course, children. It makes women fall into this trap. Of course, not those who are convinced that only those who don’t want it, but society tells them so much that they don’t know what they want anymore. They go into this pattern and suddenly there is drama and bitterness, because it was my inner voice that was right, that I do not want to, I do not feel it, and I am an unhappy mother. I would write now that it is because society is limited, but that is not an insult! Even now, there are a few comments of women who write that they do not understand how one can not want to have a baby and they convince women without children that they only want to know it. This is a kind of limitation. Sorry, I don’t want to offend anyone. I also recommend research, you can find it on the Internet, I don’t remember the details. Parents in different countries and continents were examined. And it turned out that Polish women and Poles are the most unhappy, burnt out and frustrated parents in Europe. Maybe it is, to some extent, a consequence of the drama in child psychiatry and a record number of suicide attempts among children and adolescents. Burnt out, frustrated parents and lonely, unhappy children.
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